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Just Thinking: about Teens & Tweens Flooding Downtown

by Mary Greendale 7/26/09

On the last day of school before the summer break, I was down at Coffee Haven with my three year-old granddaughter Riley to shop for a book. The shop was filled with Middle School aged kids. The parking lot had a dozen of them hanging around. The letters on their display sign promoting summer reading had been rearranged into language that was not really appropriate, probably done by one of the kids. There was another pack of eight or so across the street in the parking lot at Casey’s.

This phenomenon doesn’t just happen once a year though – it’s every Friday after school; waves of youngsters walk from the Middle School up to the center of town. I understand that even some of the older Miller School kids, grade 5, have been participating, too.

I used to be a merchant in this town and I know that the store owners are caught in an unenviable position. Some of these students are actual paying customers. Some of their parents are, too, so they don’t want to offend them. Also, they might be worried about recriminations if they tell the kids not to come in. But they also know that their customers might be intimidated by the throngs of kids and just decide to go elsewhere.

I know that Fiske’s used to prohibit Middle School kids from going in there after school without an adult. The store suffered constant pilferage.

There are No Loitering signs on the side of the Hollis Plaza right over the incline that some kids use as a skateboard ramp and jump. One such youngster nearly ran into my car as I approached the intersection of Fruit Street from Charles. That scared the living daylights out of me so I am really alert and cautious in that area now.

Some adults that I have talked to wonder why the police don’t just move the kids away; after all the building is posted. I have wondered that myself. So I decided to ask Chief Tom Lambert and Youth Officer Dave Gatchell to come on the show and discuss this issue.

I happen to believe that most of these kids are good kids who on their own would be harmless, but the risks increase dramatically when kids are in groups – the risks of taking physical chances, the risks of bad behavior.

On the other hand, there’s not much to do in town. We don’t have any supervised areas where youngsters can just hang around together, talk, laugh and eat pizza. That’s what they want and frankly, developmentally, that what they are driven to find – not necessarily the pizza but definitely the being together.

Is this all a problem? Whose problem is this? And how do we solve it?

 

 

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It's better to have the teens walking around in public doing as they please rather than have them lurking in some basement, unsupervised, doing god-knows-what!
- Mildred F. | 7/28/09 12:57 PM
yes, i agree with all of this.
- No Name Please. | 7/28/09 12:55 PM
I had one more comment -- has anyone noticed an increase in 5th and 6th graders, not to mention middle-schoolers in 7th and 8th, around town since we instituted the bus fee? Just wondering.
- Anita Ballesteros | 7/28/09 4:35 AM
Oh, for goodness sake, this is like acting surprised that the kids in this town drink! There is NOTHING to do here, and now we are even going to chase them back into basements and backyards and make them invisible? Holliston has needed a youth center since I moved here 12 years ago, and people were kvetching then. Take a look at Milford's stats -- things are a lot better, for the town and the kids, since they opened a youth center. There are barely any gathering places for the adults in this town, unless you want to count the churches. I would have suffocated here as a teenager... Just leave them alone and take precautions and let them be. It is not a problem, the problem is the perception.
- Anita Ballesteros | 7/28/09 3:48 AM
yes, i agree with frankie and george.
- anonymous | 7/27/09 5:21 PM
True, teens have been "hanging out" forever. Unless we want to pony up for a rec-center, I think dealing with it is a good prescription. Come to think of it, though, some grown-ups have been grumpy about it forever.
- Jay T. | 7/27/09 4:21 PM
This small town is boring enough, can you please let the kids do as they please. Now that people are finding yet another problem with this small town it could make is even more boring. Teens have been hanging downtown for decades and I don't think you can do anything to change it. So deal with it, its a few hours out of your life. Teens have nothing else to do, that's where they socialize and have fun. I'm sure many of you have done it when you were teens.
- Frankie | 7/27/09 4:08 PM
Hey, kids will be kids,it is world wide and has gone on for centuries. In 1945 we hung out in front of MacKeens drug store and before that it was at Reemie's. Today there is no wood to chop, ashes to take out and if the kids did go straight home it would probably be to an empty house with both parents working to make ends meet. The neighborhood vacant lots where energy was vented in a ballgame are pretty much gone. Once the police station is again occupied, the Linden St. facilities would be a great "Hangout" after school with pool tables, TV, etc.
- George Snow | 7/27/09 12:02 PM
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